The harsh truth : Why Trading looks easy but breaks most people (My Story & Goals)

Why Trading is the hardest way to make easy money ?

This is my 100th blog post—and today, I’m revealing the raw truth.

Most people think trading is the shortcut to becoming ultra-rich.
Fast money, quick success, maybe even double your capital overnight.
But here’s the worst part: those assumptions will break you.

I’ve seen traders lose everything.
Some quit after just 3 losses.
Some keep adding capital, hoping for a comeback—only to sink deeper.
I’ve been there too… Lost big. Saved a little. Restarted again.

Trading didn’t just test my strategy—it tested me.
And that’s why it’s the hardest way to make easy money..

Then… what about me?
Was I some trading genius?
Nope.
I just didn’t give up.

I continued—with perseverance, curiosity, and brutal honesty.
I failed, but I studied my failures.
I lost, but I learned to protect what’s left.
I didn’t chase success. I chased clarity.

I used to believe trading was the fastest way to make money.

Open laptop, choose stock, buy options, and boom—profit?

But no one told me the truth:

Trading is the hardest way to make easy money.

I am not going to lie…

I didn’t blow up my capital completely — unlike the typical trading story everyone starts with.

But I did lose huge chunks.

Each time, I managed to save 10–15% and rebuild.

And now I know—that’s what kept me alive in the game.

Let me tell you why trading is so hard… and still worth it.

💰 The Illusion Everyone Falls For

People look at trading like a shortcut.

“I’ll just follow a few indicators, learn some price action, and start making money.”

But soon, reality hits.

  • You buy at the top
  • You sell too soon
  • You panic at red candles
  • You keep re-entering with more hope than plan

And before you know it, your capital is bleeding.

Because trading looks easy—but tests every weakness in you.

💣 Why Most Traders Fail (And I Almost Did Too)

I’ve made all the classic mistakes:

Mistakes :

No proper stop loss

Turned small loss into big crash because of fake messages

Emotional trades

I entered out of fear or greed

Overconfidence

What it did :

One win made me feel like a genius

Avoiding journaling

I repeated same mistakes again and again

Trading under stress

My body hurt. My capital hurt more.

And yet, I didn’t quit.

Because even when I lost big, I always kept some capital aside.
Even when I was frustrated, I always came back with new notes, new learnings.

That’s how I knew—I’m not here just to make money.

I’m here to grow. Emotionally. Mentally. Financially.

📉 The Hardest Part Is Not The Strategy

People ask:

“Which indicator do you use?”
“How do you find breakout stocks?”
“What’s your win rate?”

But the real question should be:

“How do you control your mind when the market tests you?”

Because the hardest part in trading is:

  • Holding back from revenge trades
  • Sitting out when there’s no clear setup
  • Cutting a loss even if you feel like “it will come back”
  • Staying emotionally neutral after a loss
  • Not becoming overconfident after a win

No strategy can save you from yourself.

🔁 What Helped Me Survive (And Slowly Win)

I built my own 10-step trading framework. Not from books, but from pain.

I call it “10 Steps to Trading Success” (read it here).

Here’s what changed my journey:

What I Did & Why It Helped

Fixed 5% risk per trade = I stopped blowing capital

SL = 1 ATR / 20 EMA = No more random exits

Exit at 2x reward = I stopped being greedy

Journal every trade = I spotted patterns in my own mistakes

Focused on 1D timeframe = More clarity, less stress

I didn’t become rich overnight. = But I became stronger, sharper, calmer.

⚠️ Trading Is Hard Because It’s a Mirror

The market is not your enemy.

It simply shows you… YOU.

  • If you have no patience → it shows up
  • If you have emotional baggage → it hits your trades
  • If you seek instant results → it teaches you the hard way

That’s why trading is so hard.

Because it forces you to grow as a person—or quit.

💪 But That’s Why It’s Worth It

If you can win in trading, you can win in life.

Because to survive in this game, you must:

  • Control emotions
  • Stick to rules
  • Accept losses
  • Delay pleasure
  • Master your mind

That’s wealth mindset.
That’s spiritual discipline.
That’s success—not just in charts, but in life.

🛠️ Final Thoughts (And a Secret)

Even after huge losses, I never quit.

Each time, I saved a little capital.
Each time, I restarted smarter.
Each time, I came back with new strength.

So if you’re reading this and feeling broken or stuck…

Just remember: even the strongest traders felt that too.
The only difference is — they didn’t stop.

🌱 My Goals

I am now manifesting:

  • I trade calmly with confidence
  • I double my capital with discipline
  • I become a top 1% trader in India
  • I build wealth that heals my life and family
  • I live a free, happy, peaceful, powerful life

This is my 100th blog post.
Not a celebration of profit — but of progress.

If you found even 1 line helpful, share it.
If you relate, comment below.
Let’s grow together.

I trade to grow. Emotionally, financially, spiritually. You can too.
~ Ramz 💙
artofhacks.com | YouTube: Female Trader Ramya

Resources & Links

My Trading Youtube Channel

Investopedia – Reference

Tradingview – Charting Platform

Notion – Trading journal

Quizzes for Traders

Quick calculators for traders

Swing RRR calculator

Zerodha – Trading brokerage platform (India)

CoinDCX – Crypto Platform

Disclaimer

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